Category: Relationships

Time is Wasted

Bear It All! (1)

Reading Time: 5 minutes It’s over! What’s over? The Mr Perth Bear competition for 2021! I competed! I didn’t win, but that’s ok. Because the person who did win deserved to win. Actually, they all deserved to win if I’m being completely honest. If I had to make a choice as to who should have won, other than picking …

I Can’t Help What You Feel

Reading Time: 6 minutes The reason I’m writing this is because at the time of writing, I have a couple of friends who are not speaking with me for various reasons. I’m both annoyed at them and hurt by their attitudes because ultimately, the issues are either of their own actions or their own decisions. Whilst I’m not going …

The One That Got Away

Reading Time: 3 minutes As I approach my 30th (fine, 32nd) birthday, and since moving back to Perth, I’ve been thinking more on the relationships that didn’t eventuate to anything because I ended them. People who were genuinely good people and who I’d otherwise have considered compatible but came along at the wrong time in my life. Rugby Player …

Making Time, Before It’s Too Late

Reading Time: 4 minutes A couple of weeks ago I was asked, through my mum, by my grandma, that my great uncle wanted to see me. My great uncle had recently moved from his home in rural Western Australia to a retirement village. I hadn’t seen my great uncle in several years. The Incident When I was about 17 …

Bah Ram You

Reading Time: 4 minutes Yesterday I wrote about experiences I had in a little gym in Prahran, Victoria. This wasn’t planned, as what I had sent was sent about a month ago, but it comes back to how your actions can have a profound effect on others, no matter how small or simple the gesture may be. So what …

Community and Fitness

Reading Time: 5 minutes Here’s something I never thought I’d have missed, or even found in the first place. Community within a gym. Sitting in a gym, working hard to undo what 8 months of no gyms has done to a lot of us (and some admittedly poor choices due to a lack of focus and a lack of …

Killing a Friendship

Reading Time: 6 minutes Back in 2018, in March, me and a few friends went to the Yarra Valley to celebrate my birthday. It was a fun few days. We rented a car, toured the wineries, did all the things that you’d expect in a food and wine region. Several months later, I could cross 3 of those friends …

How to Lose a Guy in 10 days… or less…

Reading Time: 2 minutes It is 1am or thereabouts and once again the inspiration has been found to write stuff again. COVID-19 isolation seems to bring the inspired writer out in me. I have a love/hate relationship with one of the things that I worked on changing about myself many years ago, and that is caring about others. With …