Category: Sexuality

Time is Wasted

Bear It All! (3)

Reading Time: 13 minutes This turned in to a 3 parter unexpectedly. I’d suggest reading part 1 and part 2 prior if you haven’t already. No Fun For You Since I don’t currently live alone, I had these grand ideas that during my downtime, I’d fire up Grindr and Scruff and find myself some company. The truth is, I …

Bear It All! (2)

Reading Time: 5 minutes This is part 2 of my experience in the Mr Perth Bear competition. If you haven’t already, part 1 might as well be required reading, when you’re finished, check out part 3! Apologies in advance if this post feels a bit all over the place. I tried to put each section in where I thought …

Killing a Friendship

Reading Time: 6 minutes Back in 2018, in March, me and a few friends went to the Yarra Valley to celebrate my birthday. It was a fun few days. We rented a car, toured the wineries, did all the things that you’d expect in a food and wine region. Several months later, I could cross 3 of those friends …

The Letter – A Story of Sexual Assault.

Reading Time: 5 minutes Trigger Warning: This post deals with sexual assault. It has taken a very long time for me to finish writing this. To actually want to post it. I still don’t like to talk about it. Visiting Perth, I made some time to visit a friend who I hadn’t seen in years, literal years. He was …

Tomorrow. (3)

Reading Time: 2 minutes This is part 3 of a 3 part series, for better context, you should read part 1 and part 2. I left Perth and move to Melbourne to get away from the influences that had a negative impact on my life. It has helped me immensely in my own personal growth and to, at least …

Pickles

Reading Time: 3 minutes I had recently started really getting in to various kinks, mainly as the dominant party dominating and controlling subs in and out of bed. This has been an experience for me and something that I’ve begun to really enjoy. Prior to this, I had also had a hell of a fascination with tattoos. I wouldn’t …

I can only be better tomorrow. (2)

Reading Time: 6 minutes This is part 2 of a 3 part series. Read part 1 by clicking here. Perth was a lot of things for me. It will always be home. I still, to this day, ponder on coming back. Why? I’m not really sure. I have a lot of good friends over there who I do miss …

I can’t change who I was, I can only be better tomorrow. (1)

Reading Time: 3 minutes Your upbringing doesn’t define you, and just because you were somebody in the past, doesn’t mean you can’t be somebody else tomorrow. But isn’t that what racism is based on? Ethnicity A were well known for bad thing A so everybody from ethnicity A must do the bad thing A. But what about you? What …